But when God, who had set me apart even from my mother's womb and called me through His grace, was pleased to reveal His Son in me....
-Galatians 1:15 & 16
How can we serve Christ in the ordinary ways of life? There are a million and one answers to this question but many times we think of service to Christ as only witnessing to someone or handing out Bibles or preaching / teaching. While these things are no less important, it doesn't have to be labeled as a spiritual activity for it to be service unto our Lord. As a dear friend pointed out to me shortly after Lydia was born, "Even if you find yourself washing bottles over and over again, remember you're serving your daughter and in that serving Christ." What a comfort that was to me. No wonder many women today find themselves discontent with "just being a wife and mom". While I am one who would not be happy staying at home all of the time with children I do believe we have allowed ourselves, as women, to see this role as menial. Being a wife and mom is anything but menial. In fact, it's truly hard work!
I have been blessed at this point in my life with the best of both worlds, as a mom and as a business woman. I do not view either one as more important than the other, although my husband & child certainly come before my customers. Both of these areas of my life include service to Christ Jesus, whether it be helping someone pick out a dress or doing laundry for my family. This is what it means to serve Christ in the ordinary ways of life. Where does Christ have you at this point in your life? Then start taking a look around you to notice the simple ways in which you serve each day. Any of these acts done for the glory of God will not be in vain.
This is also one of the best ways to witness to the lost and dying world around us. As Galatians reads, God has set us apart, let us live our lives displaying that we are different, not by our words, but by our actions. Yes, we will fail and make mistakes, but how do we handle those mistakes? Are they handled in humbleness and humility or in anger and bitterness?
There is so much joy in serving Christ that words to adequately describe it are not in existence. Let us remember one final thought, however, to keep us in balance. Mary and Martha; two of Jesus friends while He was here on earth. One simply sat at Jesus feet and spent time with him while the other scurried about preparing this and that. In this story, it's important to note that Jesus did not scold Martha for scurrying about but simply reminded her of what she was missing by not taking time to sit with Him. I have been guilty on numerous occasions of being a Martha and valuing physical, hands on service to Jesus over simply spending time with Him in the Word and in prayer. Our physical acts of service are all for naught if they are not balanced in a close relationship to our Lord. If we intend to have a relationship with anyone we must communicate with them. Jesus is no different.